What I actually use.
This is not a list of everything available. It is the short list of things that earned a permanent spot in my house, plus a few I bought, used, and returned so you do not have to.
Grinding, spices, herbs and seasonings
If you buy one thing off this page, buy a grinder. It changes everything else.

Organic spices
A shelfBought in small quantities and replaced often. There are more of these than fit on one card, so they have a shelf of their own.
Step inside the shelf
Herbs and seasonings
A shelfBasil, oregano, thyme, rosemary, and the rest of what gets crushed into a blend or added at the end of a dish.
Step inside the shelf
Mortar and pestle
On the counterSlower than the grinder, and better for garlic, fresh herbs, and small amounts of toasted seed where you want texture instead of powder.
Countertop spice grinder
On the counterA full countertop machine, not the little coffee grinder shape. Bulk is the reason. Grinding a jar of house blend in one pass is a different job from grinding a spoonful.
Rechargeable salt and pepper grinder
On the counterAn electric grinder worked with a button on the top. Rechargeable, so there is no cord running across the counter.
Electric salt and pepper grinder set
On the counterThe same idea sold as a set, so salt and pepper each get their own. Electric, with the button on the top.
Cooking and prep
The things that live on the burners, in the oven, and in the drawer beside them.

Pots and pans
A shelfThe skillet and everything else that goes on a burner, with nothing sprayed on the inside to wear away.
Step inside the shelf
Cutting boards
A shelfThree to choose between rather than one right answer, for different counters and different jobs.
Step inside the shelf
Waterproof apron
On the hookTurmeric does not come out. Neither does beet, and neither does the oil that spits when a pan goes into a hot oven.
Knives and sets
In the drawerOne good knife you keep sharp beats a block of dull ones, and how it sits in my hand matters more than the brand on the blade.
Baking pans
A shelfSheet pans and the roasting pan. Everything that goes into the oven on a rack.
Step inside the shelfSourdough tools
A shelfEverything the loaf touches between the starter jar and the oven. It had been sharing the baking shelf and it had outgrown it.
Step inside the shelfMixing tools and accessories
A shelfEverything that whips, blends and mixes lives here. The stand mixer handles dough and big batches. The smaller tools take the quick jobs, then go back in the drawer.
Step inside the shelfThermometers
A shelfTwo rather than one, because they do two different jobs. The instant read checks chicken and fish at the end, and the candy thermometer watches the number the whole way up.
Step inside the shelfKitchen scales
A shelfSpice blends and bread dough come out more consistent measured by weight than by spoon, and the two jobs do not want the same scale.
Step inside the shelfMeasuring tools
A shelfCups and spoons in glass, in metal and in wood. Three sets to choose between, so there is one that suits the way you cook.
Step inside the shelfPressure cookers
A shelfTwo to choose between rather than one right answer. Both cook under pressure, and the difference is mostly which other jobs you want the pot to do.
Step inside the shelfFood processors
A shelfThree to choose between rather than one right answer. The work is the same, chopping and shredding and turning whole ingredients into something smooth.
Step inside the shelfCheese graters and zesters
A shelfFrom shredded mozzarella to bright citrus zest, the right grater makes quick work of prep. A quick hand tool for small jobs, or an electric one for the bigger ones.
Step inside the shelfFine mesh strainer
In the drawerFor sifting freshly ground spice so the blend is even, and for a hundred other jobs. Buy the sturdy one, not the flimsy one.
Organic cotton straining bags
In the drawerReusable bags for straining, so a broth or a nut milk comes out clean without lining a sieve every time.
Unbleached cheesecloth
In the drawerUnbleached and undyed, for straining, wrapping herbs, and the jobs a sieve is too coarse for.
Preservation and storage
What keeps a harvest, a batch of broth, or a bulk order from going to waste.

Glass storage jars
A shelfGlass, because it does not hold onto smells and does not stain, and you can see what is in it without opening it.
Step inside the shelfVacuum sealing and freezer
A shelfThe sealer, the bags and rolls, and the labels and marker that go with them. Everything that gets food into the freezer and back out again.
Step inside the shelfCanning starter set
In the cupboardA water bath canning pot with the pieces that go with it. Buying it as a set means nothing gets forgotten.
Beyond the kitchen
The same standard applied to everything else I keep buying.
Toothpaste and toothbrushes
A shelfShort ingredient lists and no artificial dyes, and a choice between a brush you charge and one you do not.
Step inside the shelfLaundry
A shelfI stopped buying detergent and buy the parts instead. Completely unscented, no perfume covering anything up.
Step inside the shelfWater filtration
A shelfIt is the ingredient in everything you cook and the one nobody thinks about. The plumbed in one and the countertop one are both here.
Step inside the shelfShampoo and conditioner
In the bathFragrance free or lightly scented with real essential oil. It took a few tries to find ones that did not leave hair flat.
Deodorant
In the bathThe category with the most disappointing options. This one is a mineral salt stick, unscented.
Hand and dish soap
At the sinkPlain, unscented, and refillable so you are not buying a new plastic bottle every month.
Household cleaner
Under the sinkOne concentrate that handles counters, floors, and glass instead of six bottles under the sink.
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